Your Kinky Bucket List


As we start the new year, you can make APEX everything you want it to be!

Throughout the space there will be buckets where you can add what you want APEX to be for you.

  • Classes you want to see
  • Events you would like to attend
  • Changes to the Space
  • Things you would like to try
  • Anything APEX members can make happen!

We will have some fun updates for everyone as we gather your thoughts.

Participate and make APEX your own!


NEW! Escape The Dungeon


As a fundraiser, APEX has created our very own escape room! It has been tested, run, and EVERYONE loves it!

To view the available games, visit the Escape The Dungeon Page

Note To Members: If you have six (6) players and there isn’t a time that works for you, please email with some dates/times that work and we will see if we can make it happen!

We also have some games open to the entire 18+ Community! Members can play in either. A full game always gives you a better chance at escaping!


Celebrate 2017 with APEX: Saturday, December 30th


Celebrate 2017 at APEX with all your kinky friends! Back by popular demand, we are bringing back the fun and outrageous black light party!

We’re going to light up our entire space with black light so you can glow and shine as we celebrate our year!

We will roll the 2017 slideshow, and you can relive the fantastic moments of 2017.

HOSTED PLAY SPACE!  No glowing duds, don’t worry. We will be providing body paint so you can light up the night in your own special way. The downstairs play room will be yours to enjoy getting glowy!  The Glow Bar will also return so everyone can enjoy lighting up the night!

Celebrate your heritage and bring your favorite New Year’s dish. We all have traditions, let’s bring them all together and celebrate the diversity that makes us so amazing!

This is not a photo party, but we will provide an opportunity for you to take a photo in blacklight!


You must be an APEX (or reciprocal) member in order to attend an APEX party. This is legal stuff, sorry all! You can learn more about being a Member of the Arizona Power Exchange on our Membership Page.

$15 for Pay Per Event (or reciprocal) Members, FREE for All Access Members


Celebrate The Season! Saturday, December 16th


Celebrate the Season with your kinky friends! This is our chance to relax and unwind before the Holidays!

RSVP to the APEX Holiday Party on, and tell all of your friends you are coming!

Without our Volunteers APEX wouldn’t exist, and so to thank those who give so much of themselves, we throw the best party of the year for you! Let’s celebrate all the amazing things our volunteers have accomplished, and thank them for their support of our club!

APEX requests all of our volunteers make an effort to attend…Santa has a surprise for you!

This party will be full of surprises and presents and lots of fun things! We look forward to wishing you all a very happy holiday season!

The Holiday Party is NOT a photo party, but there will be a photo opportunity for those wishing to have a keepsake. A decorated area will be available for your own photo of the evening.

We will be doing a holiday-inspired main dish, but a share food is very welcome. There will be a fun prize for the best holiday themed desert!

Hosted Play Space: Holiday inspired hosted play space in the downstairs play room! We will provide fun holiday lights, gift wrap, and tree trimmings to celebrate in a fun and kinky way!  The first annual Kinky Holiday Trophy will awarded to the best Holiday themed scene of the evening! Become the inaugural recipient as you spread holiday cheer!

There will also be a While Elephant Gift Exchange! We will begin at 8:30 pm in the Quieter Play Room! Bring a wrapped gift of no more than $10.00, or you can bring something to re-gift! This will be a fun way to start our evening!!


November 25th: Hosted Play Space, PreParty Workshop and Escape Game!


APEX is proud of our hosted play space and preparty workshops! While we are very excited for what 2018 brings, we’ve still got a lot happening this year!

November 25th Brings us a PreParty Workshop on Violet Wand Etching! Learn how some simple tools can create amazing art!

Same Party…Hosted Play Space with Mummification! In the Downstairs Play Room we will have everything you need to do a super fun mummification and RunnerDan will be in attendance if you need any help!

We will also be doing a baked potato bar! We will bring potatoes and some traditional fixings, but we are counting on you to bring whatever fun things you can come up with!

There will also be an opportunities for you to play in our Escape the Dungeon Game! Click here to book the game.

RSVP On and tell your friends you are coming!

Preparty Workshop on Violet Wand Etching
APEX Party with Hosted Mummification



APEX Halloween Party: Saturday, October 28, 2017 · 8:00 PM – 2:00 AM


A fun filled evening of surprises! Performance art, costumes, great food, and prizes!

A costume contest for most creative, sexiest, funniest, and most outrageous.

Please bring a share food! There will be a contest for the best Halloween themed goodie!

There will be a door prize from one of your favorite local vendors, and a raffle for some interesting treats…and tricks!

Don’t miss this opportunity to see what all the fuss has been about! It will be a magical evening!

This is a themed costume party, but everyone is welcome. Your regular Dungeon Party activities will be available!


$15 for Pay Per Event Members, FREE for All Access Members

While we will remain open until 2am, the doors will close at 11pm so our Volunteers can enjoy the party as well. If you can’t get there before 11pm, please make special arrangements via email:

To Learn More about APEX Membership Please visit the website:

*Please note: You must be a member at least 24 hours PRIOR to this event to attend. No orientations will be done at this event.


RSVP Here (Not Required For Attendance)


October 27th: APEX Volunteer Drive and Social 7pm-9pm


APEX is focusing some efforts into getting YOU more involved in our club.

Tonight is a great opportunity to do that.

We will share with you our structure, ways you can participate, and things you can do to put your stamp on your club.

This is a social occasion. You will get some information, meet some people, and learn more about the Arizona Power Exchange, the Valley’s Premier source of BDSM Education, Social Opportunities, Support, and fun!

You must be an APEX (or reciprocal) member in order to attend an APEX party. This is legal stuff, sorry all! You can learn more about being a Member of the Arizona Power Exchange on our Membership Page.

Please RSVP HERE. (Not Required for attendance)


September is National Consent Month!


Partnering with the NCSF, the Arizona Power Exchange is proud to bring you Consent Month!

Please visit the Consent Month Website for contests, merchandise, ideas, and free stuff as we all discuss consent in a positive way!

AT APEX, we focus on consent all month long including…

PEX sponsors [Consent Month][] and focuses on consent the entire month of September!

**Here are some things you might be interested in to support affirmative consent:**

Monday, September 4th STATE OF CONSENT with Susan Wright of the NCSF


Monday, September 11, 2017 Consensual Non-Consent: Reality vs. Fantasy

Wednesday, September 13, 2017 APEX 303: SKILLS – BLOODBORNE PATHOGENS

Friday, September 15, 2017 Consent Themed Photos

Saturday, September 16, 2017 APEX Pre-Party Workshop: Informed Consent in Casual & Pick-up-Play

Monday, September 18, 2017 Consent at APEX

Saturday, September 23, 2017 APEX 29th Anniversary Presentations: Honoring our Volunteersncluding a consent presentation!

Monday, September 25, 2017 Master/slave dynamics and consent

Visit the APEX Calendar for more information!

Got Consent?


2017 APEX Kink Karnival: November 11th 10am-4pm


The Kink Karnival is an amazing collection of vendors, demonstrations, performances, and fun! Learn more about the Arizona Power Exchange, The Valley’s Premier Source for BDSM education, social opportunities, and support. Learn about Lifestyle Organizations in our Valley, see demonstrations provided by our Members and Vendors, meet like-minded people, and see the largest collection of quality vendors assembled in Arizona.

Calling all vendors, artisans, and crafters! If you’d like a spot at the 2017 Kink Karnival, you can fill out the Vendor Form. We have a cap for vendors, and we limit the number of ‘like’ vendors, so do this early!

Saturday, November 11th, 2017 10am-4pm

Tell your friends you are attending the 2017 APEX Kink Karnival Event
Facebook Event

Want to Participate?  Click below:

As a Vendor
As a Demo
As a Community Group

Just want to know what’s happening?

Learn more about the Kink Karnival:

If you are a member of APEX you can get a discount on the KK and Party for purchasing your tickets in advance! *You must be an APEX Member prior to the KK to attend the party.

All Access members get into the party for FREE!

To Stay up to date on the latest about the 2017 Kink Karnival Visit the Kink Karnival Webpage! 


APEX Celebrates 29 Years of Volunteers


Do you have photos of APEX volunteers or projects that were important to you? How about a remembrance of a volunteer who may not have made it into an old newsletter, but was part of your journey? Maybe you have a story about a volunteer who has moved on, but you would like remembered? If so, we would love to hear from you.

Our Anniversary Party usually commemorates the previous year, and we will certainly do that, but with your help, we will also celebrate all our yesterdays, and the volunteers who made them happen.

There are several ways you can help:There are several ways you can help:
• Provide photographs of events or people.
• Document stories of volunteers who impacted you.
• Share with former volunteers who may not hear about this event. We will have a keepsake for some of those volunteers.

If you have photos or stories you can email them to: If you can’t scan, email us and we will arrange to have it done for you. Deadline for Submissions: September 1st, 2017

We hope everyone will participate to make this Anniversary special.


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